Chapter 7 - Inconsiderate People: Why Do They Think They Are More Special Than Others?

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Chapter 7 - Inconsiderate People: Why Do They Think They Are More Special Than Others?

BY PATRICK HO

“Don't do unto others what you don't want done unto you.” - Confucius

Are modern pressures, constant digital distraction, or perhaps a sense of entitlement eroding the basic character and personality of humans?

I ask this because almost daily I inadvertently witness instances of human inconsideration. Sometimes, people seem like "blur zombies," operating without simple logic or awareness of others.

This chapter explores the root of this behavior and offers practical ways we can all cultivate more consideration.

The Cost of Entitlement

This entire chapter was inspired by a simple dinner with a lawyer friend at a bistro in Malaysia. We were seated outside, next to a busy road where double-parking is unfortunately common.

In Malaysia, those who double-park are "encouraged" to leave their mobile number. However, this unwritten rule is a poor substitute for common sense. You should always park further away and walk rather than inconvenience others.

Right in front of us, a Malay lady needed to leave. The young male driver of a Mercedes-Benz, whom I had seen double-parked behind her, was nowhere to be found. She waited patiently for a good 15 minutes. It was after office hours, and I'm sure she was eager to get home to her family.

The restaurant manager went out to ask if she had called the driver, whom I suspect was in his mid-20s. He had left a number on the dashboard, but she had called him twice with no answer.

When the driver finally showed up, we witnessed the height of inconsiderate and rude behavior. He did not apologize to the lady 

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Note: This chapter was developed and edited with the assistance of Artificial Intelligence (AI). The contents of this chapter
were designed as a basic guide. Individuals who suffer from mental health issues, or are overly stressed from work and life's challenges are advised to seek professional medical help.

Patrick Ho is passing on what he learned from his past for the benefit of future generations. His journey of Spirituality is a daily learning experience of Awareness, Mindfulness, Compassion, Loving Kindness and Meditation.