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Don't Expect Anything From Others

 There are Good People & Bad

If there was one thing good you could do today, what would it be?

Just think about that sentence...


Daily, we occasionally meet toxic people, egoistic bxxtards, b**ches and the list goes on.

Nevertheless, our role in life should not be letting those types mentioned influence us or dictate our lives.

As the saying goes, "don't let the bad make you feel miserable".

There have been many times where I get sucked into a debate or argument by someone, and realizing later that I could have controlled my inner self a lot better.

At times feeling miserable after every episode.

These days, and now in my 50's, nothing upsets me much anymore.

Although, an irritating and long-winded big-headed moron will occasionally make me lose my sh*t.

Having said that though, I now constantly remind myself that not all in this world are mentally sound?

Nor possess the intelligence to realize their own actions.

So the moral of the story is, we must look into the mirror first and realize who we truly are first, before we start judging others or look down upon.

Don't hero-worship anyone as well.

Be yourself. Be humble. Be loving. Be kind to others.

   

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